Husband wants to join Army. Can't decide if it's a good or bad idea.?

You seem like a sincere and mature woman, and it's funny reading what you wrote because about four years ago I may have been writing some of the same things. I just clicked on your profile to try to email you personally, but there wasn't an option for it. I believe my profile has it, so if you want feel free to contact me. However, I must say that I'm a Semper Fi kind of wife, so my bias is towards the Marines, (who, I should add, only do deployments that last typically 6-8 months.)